Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Stateside Errands and Small Plane to Paradise

I've had a whirlwind of travel lately.  A bit too much for my liking, actually.  When I'm back in Florida for visits with friends or family, and the ever-present island errands, I've described how hectic these Stateside visits can be.  My latest trip last week was the most hectic yet!

On Monday, I took a morning flight from the island to Florida.  Upon landing, I hopped in my little beater car and drove a few hours to meet friends who were visiting Florida on their kids' Spring Break.  
At dinner, with Theresa (and Kevin behind the camera).

Theresa and Kevin are both dear friends of mine from law school who have blessed the world with three sweet, rambunctious boys.
This snuggle made every minute of the drive worthwhile!
After an enjoyable overnight and morning together, I hopped back into the car on Tuesday and drove another couple of hours to spend the night with my grandparents.  A delightful visit!  Back into the car Wednesday morning and another couple hours drive back to Florida's southeast coast for island errands.  

What do I mean by that?  I mean, EVERYTHING I can't accomplish on the island itself and need.  On Wednesday afternoon, that included:
  • buying a fuel filter for my beau's truck at Napa Auto Parts,
  • West Marine for boat shoes (strike out)
  • stocking up on meat products from an Omaha Steaks store,
  • dropping by my dad's to put the meat in the freezer,
  • Outdoor World for boat shoes and flip flops (score!)
  • annual visit to my Stateside doctor,
  • far too long in a Target store,
  • back to my Dad's for chatting over a glass of wine, then blog work at the counter while he cooked dinner.
Thankfully, I see my family often these days because this visit was far too short!  After spending the night, I hugged my dad good-bye and was back on the road Thursday morning by 7:00am:
  • to my Mom's to transfer the frozen meats to her freezer,
  • dermatologist for my first checkup since living in hardcore sun (a good report, phew!),
  • Lowe's for closet organizers,
  • banking,
  • PetSmart for dog food,
  • IKEA for more home storage solutions,
  • Bed, Bath and Beyond for miscellaneous,
  • haircut, 
  • dentist,
  • grocery store for island food,
  • meeting with tax guy,
  • back to my mom's to consolidate packing, check computer and get ready to return home the next day.
Normally, these errand-packed days would include a trip to the veterinarian within 48 hours of departure to complete Angel's immigration paperwork.  However, on this relatively short trip, I'd simply left her at home on the island with my beau.

The next morning, Friday, I loaded my trunk and back seat and hit the road again.  First, was a several-hour appointment at Home Depot with my mother to complete a custom order for bathroom cabinets/sinks/counters/faucets/hardware for the island.  Then I hugged my mother good-bye and headed to the private hangar where I would take a shared charter service flight back to the island.

I unloaded everything onto a scale in the hangar - 235 pounds of stuff!  Given that I am only allowed 35 pounds before paying $1.50 per pound overage, this was an expensive trip.  However, I was stocking up for several months, and it was still cheaper than buying it in Nassau or shipping it over from the States.
When Stateside, I mostly raid my mother's closet, so this pile doesn't even include much personal packing.
After I was all checked in, my brother, who works nearby, met me for lunch at a restaurant down the street.  Again, too quick a visit, but better than nothing and we've enjoyed seeing each other a lot these days!

After lunch, I headed back to the waiting room next to the hangar until time to depart.  No counters, no intercoms, no security lines, no ramps - everything small and simple.  A staff member led us on a short walk outside to the plane.

A single engine Caravan.
 Yup, that's it!  I climbed up the 3-step ladder attached to the door and entered the plane.

Nine seats, plus pilot and co-pilot seats.  On this flight, I sat in the single seat behind the pilot (left side).
If you think this is a small plane, trust me when I say that it is not!  I suppose I'm comfortable from having grown up in small planes with my family and making this particular flight frequently.

Anyway, we all got buckled in and took off.  Finally, I was heading home.

Flying southeast and leaving the Florida coastline behind.
After flying about 90 minutes, we landed in Andros, the largest island in the Bahamas.  The island where I live is too small to boast a customs/immigration office, so I have to clear in through an island, like Andros, that does have such an office.
Entering the building, I waited my turn in line to see the Bahamian Immigration officer.  

I enter the Bahamas on a tourist visa.  In the past, visitors could get months at a time on their visa, even as long as six or nine months.  But, like many places, Bahamian immigration seems to be tightening, and I've been denied long stays on a couple of occasions.  (That means, I return to the States earlier than planned, then re-enter the Bahamas on a new visa.)  In part, it depends on whether a Customs and an Immigration officer are on duty, or if the Customs officer is serving both roles because Customs does not have authority to grant beyond 30 days.  Ultimately, it's all at the discretion of the Immigration officer and his or her mood that day!

This time, I don't have any Stateside trips scheduled until August, so I asked for 5 months, smiled and held my breath.  The Immigration officer carefully thumbed through the stamps in my passport before simply stamping his approval.  Yay!

I contained my excitement and turned to the next podium to see the Customs agent.  She formally started to ask me standard questions (where was I going, was this my first time).  In answering, I chatted about going to Regatta (shorthand for the national sailing championship next month) and cheering on our local boats.  She broke into a smile, wistfully exclaimed she wished she could go this year, directed me to dance enough for both of us, and that concluded her questioning!

Back outside, I climbed onto the plane and settled in for the short ride the rest of the way home.

And THIS is where things turn truly magnificent - the aerial views of the turquoise swirls of water, white swirls of sand and intricate chain of small islands are simply indescribable.  These pictures - taken on a hazy day and through reflective glass - can't even begin to do it justice, but I'll let them speak for themselves . . .









As we neared home, I peered down at neighboring islands, where various friends live, recognizing those particular islands by their shapes, position in the chain and structures built upon them.  Finally, we descended even lower and approached the 3,000 foot airstrip.

I told you the island was small!  From the air, the landing strip seems to take up most of it!
There's no airport or Air Traffic Control, so the pilot just scans the sky and listens to the radio for other pilots in the area, as well as radioing his approach.  Landing a plane is no small feat in any conditions.  However, landing on a short runway, especially on a windy day with strong cross-winds, has terrified more than a few pilots new to the area.  Experienced pilots crab their way on in, and landings are usually fairly smooth and uneventful - just the way we like 'em!

Home, sweet home.  (The blur in the photo is from the moving propeller.)
We touched down, and I smiled.  Climbing out of the plane, I saw a variety of friends at the airport, giving rides to their family and friends, sending stuff on an outgoing plane, picking up stuff from an incoming plane - it's quite the hub of activity.  I saw two friends who came to get stuff I was carrying for them.  I also quickly ran over to hail the return of dear neighbors who, after a long absence, had just arrived by private plane and were piling their immense cargo into their truck.

Similarly, my beau and I loaded my haul into the back of his truck, then headed home where Angel noisily greeted me with squeals and yips, and I happily began the process of unpacking, putting everything away and settling into home.

Monday, April 2, 2012

How Did You End Up On An Island? Part 2

If you've been reading along with me, you'll know that the answer to Part 1 of this question involved opening myself up to broader possibilities and taking the leap of quitting my job as a lawyer.  As I wrote in that post, my job for the next year was going to be to design an exciting new life, one that was more in alignment with my true self and how I really felt inside, now that I would have the luxury of time to sift through the clutter of our hectic lives and figure mine out!

Okay, So You Quit Your Midwestern Job, But How Did You End Up On An Island?

I spent the first week of voluntary unemployment sleeping in, going to lunches and matinees with my stay-at-home-mom friends, snuggling on the couch with my darling dog, Angel, and voraciously reading books.  Or, as it helped me to think about it so that I didn’t feel too lazy, I spent my first week implementing the first component of my new plan – to just BE and decompress for a little while.

My first real order of business came quickly:  ditch winter and spend time with my family in Florida.  While there, I also planned to duck away for a week-long trip to a tiny island in the Bahamas where my family had been vacationing for 25 years.  We had even built a family home on the island, but I hadn’t visited in several years. 

Well, one week on the island turned into a month, turned into several months.  Walking into that small community of people who had known me since I was 16 was a true homecoming.  I love the small-town values combined with a sophisticated flair from an international mix of people, the indescribable beauty of the sea, the comforting warmth of the sunshine, the overwhelming peace and contentment I feel here, the pace and experiences of island living, and the time to fulfill all my domestic “nesting” leanings.

I was home.

Why go back to the cold?  Why return to the rat race?  I was HAPPY on the island.  At peace.  Satisfied.  Content.  To the core.  Sure, there were still a host of unknowns, but I quietly sensed that it would all just work itself out.  This is where Faith comes in for me.  For once, I wasn’t trying to plan every detail, and it was evolving better than I could have even imagined.  I trusted that would be the case with eventual work and other details, too.  

So, I sold off everything in the States and declared this small island my permanent home, with my U.S. base conveniently with family in South Florida.

Massive Moving Sale

I kept the beloved piano and giant sunflowers photo, but ditched the shovel and winter gear!

Amazing what you'll part with when the question becomes "Is this worth moving cross-country & paying for storage space?"

Taking stock and marking off one of my many lists during the sale/move.

Ahhh, already on my way to a Better Life!
A Word About Love

One other thing – as much as I try to protect the privacy of those close to me who may be less than enthused about their lives being broadcast in this manner (like my uber-private beau), my story is incomplete without one other critical piece.  Back on the island, I reconnected with The Great Love of My Life, a Bahamian man I had dated for 5 years more than a decade prior.  It is such a small community that I suspected I would cross paths with him when I came for my visit.  But there was so much water under our respective bridges that I wasn’t sure if we would even still be friends, much less entertain the possibility of a romantic reunion.   

However, some fires are inextinguishable.  Our love burns stronger than ever, and coming to this as wiser, more-experienced people gives us a fresh perspective and appreciation for what we have.  We are together now, and I expect we will be forever this time around. 

One of the few pics you'll see here of my beau!
Life is good.  I am so thankful every day that I followed those “illogical” nudgings.  To me, that is what Faith is all about, and mine has deepened tremendously.  I am so thankful that my Type A personality let go of my ingrained habit to plan and attempt to control every detail.  Rather, by trusting that something better would evolve for me and my loved ones, it does.  And it just keeps getting better in ways that I could not even have imagined.

Thank you for joining me on this amazing journey!  May you dare to live your life to its fullest, too.  It’s not your location that matters; it’s your state of mind!  Be open to Choosing The Better Life for yourself.  I can’t wait to hear about your journey!